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Wednesday, June 16, 2010

DoorGift during My E-Day...

mini cupcakes...

close up desert...

mini towel...(book)



tadaaaa..here my doorgift during my e-day on 24th April 2010...


mm really AWESOME..co i decide to choose my close friends.. Kak Long @ Shabariah dan Kak Jem(my friends UTM)..sgt berbaloi-baloi..ngeeee...cheaper price that i got from their. i just booked 200 pieces mini cupcakes and 50 pieces mini towel.... (",)









Monday, June 14, 2010

The Back Up Plan







wink~ wink~ ...menanti kehadiran my fiance by this Friday..... luv n miss u so muchhhhhh,dear!....egege.. (",) counting...counting...
dah plan nak watching diz movie with my beloved fiance..........
yeahhh my peberet actress... JLO
p palang s: hihiksss teringat time tgk cite "The Complicated" last 2 months ago... my fiance gelak tak hinggat.. egegege..adeiii pecah perut dibuatnya....

Sunday, June 13, 2010

~Close Your Eyes~

Tomorrow morning I have to leave
But wherever I may be
Best believe I'm thinking of you
I can't believe how much I love you

All we have is here tonight
We don't want to waste this time
Give me something to remember
Baby put your lips on mine

And I'll love you forever
Anytime that we find ourselves apart

Just close your eyes
And you'll be here with me
Just look to your heart
And that's where I'll be
If you just close your eyes
Till your drifting away
You'll never be too far from me
If you close your eyes

I know I'm gonna see you again
But promise me that you won't forget
Cause as long as you remember
A part of us will be together
So even when you're fast asleep
Look for me inside your dreams
Keep believing in what we're sharing
And even when I'm not there to tell you

I'll, I'll love you forever
Anytime that I can't be where you are

[Chorus]

Is there anywhere that far?
Anytime you're feeling low
Is there anywhere that love cannot reach?
Oh no
It could be anywhere on earth
It could be anywhere I'll be
Oh baby if you want to see

Just close your eyes
And you'll be here with me
Look to your heart
That's where you'll be
Just close your eyes
Till your drifting away
You'll never be too far from me

Hadis Mengenai Wanita Bersanggul Tinggi

pic sekadar hiasan semata-mata k!

Mungkin ramai yang tidak tahu rupanya wanita yang bersanggul tinggi ini sudahpun ditulis di dalam hadis.. Namun mungkin ramai yang tidak tahu akan hukumnya kerana ia terikut2 trend masa kini. Di sini kami di perkahwinan1malaysia ingin berkongsi pengetahuan dengan anda semua. Mungkin juga untuk bakal2 pengantin yang akan dibuat sanggul oleh mak-mak andam di hari pernikahan anda.


It's a trend nowadays that many muslim Malaysian women are into the new hijab wearing i.e. wearing a shawl-like syrian style hijab. I posted on my Fb status recently stating that I too, would want to wear the syrian women hijab style with high bun but unfortunately my hair is short thus cannot tie or do a bun at all.I also received few suggestions to buy fake buns online or at Arzu, KLCC.

I used to study in an arabic-medium school and had learned that when you wear tudung, you're not supposed to show any indication that your hair is long by tying your hair really high/do a bun until men can notice the presence of your long hair eventhough you wear your cover/hijab. That defeats the purpose of wearing a hijab.However, I can't remember the hukum whether it's haram or harus or makruh.

Being curious, I googled about this sanggul arab issue and found the hadith related:


Quote::
“ akan muncul dalam kalangan umatku di akhir zaman, kaum lelaki yang menunggang sambil duduk di atas pelana, lalu mereka turun di depan pintu-pintu masjid. Wanita-wanita mereka( isteri mereka atau anak perempuan), berpakaian tetapi seperti bertelanjang ( nipis&ketat). Di atas kepala mereka pula(wanita) terdapat bonggolan (sanggul atau tocang) seperti bonggol unta yang lemah gemalai. Oleh itu laknatlah mereka semua. Sesungguhnya mereka adalah wanita-wanita yang terlaknat”- hadith riwayat Ahmad, jil.2, ms. 223.

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda:

Quote::
“dua golongan penghuni neraka yang mana aku sendiri belum pernah melihat keadaan mereka didunia: golongan yang membawa cemeti seperti seekor lembu lalu menggunakannya untuk memukul manusia dan juga kaum wanita yang berpakaian seperti bertelanjang, menggoyangkan badan dan berlenggang-lenggok, kepala mereka ada suatu seperti bonggol di kepala unta yang bergoyang-goyang. Mereka tentu tidak akan memasuki syurga atau mencium baunya sedangkan bau syurga itu dapat dihidu dari jarak perjalanan begitu dan begini”

–hadith riwayat Muslim. Hadith no 212-


I would say that I was tempted at first as I saw some women/celebraties/tv presenters looked really pretty wearing the syrian style hijab with high sanggul/bun. Sometimes, bila nak cantik, manusia selalu lupa pada hukum walaupon dah belajar.I am one of them. Bila nak buat benda jahat, laju je.

Anyway, in wearing hijab,niat perlukah menghalalkan cara? I dare not jatuhkan hukum or say that it is haram wearing the fake sanggul arab.However,at the moment, I'll just forget about buying the sanggul arab thingy.